You’ve probably heard the phrase, it’s hard to say sorry.
It’s even harder to say no.
Especially in particular settings such as work, home, etc..
Don’t let indecision ruin progress. If it’s a no, it’s a no. Be honest. Be straight. Be clear. People will respect you more.
Early(ish) in my career, there was a Vice President. He had a role in his organisation. I expressed an interest. He approached me. I was like.. wow! This guy, (senior) has approached me!! This is awesome!!
But on reflection – there were a lot of maybe’s. And as I was walking to his office to say, I’ll maybe consider it… I said no. I said, no… I don’t want to take this opportunity right now.
He said he was disappointed. I was too – for feeling like I’d let him down.
Then a few weeks later, he messaged me – Bal, I have a lot of respect for you, you said no. You didn’t mess me around.
