Alot of people ask… how can I be more happy?
Simple.
Enjoy life.
Be excited about life.
Everything that you do… have pleasure in what you do. Even if it’s going down the pub and having a pint, enjoy it. Enjoy that first sip of the pint. Enjoy the walk to the pub. Get excited about the activities you do… or want to do!
The more excited you become.. the more happy you’ll be.
In life, we’ll be faced with many decisions.
Sometimes, they can be difficult ones. And then there can be easy ones. Either way, we should know in our gut… if it’s the right or wrong.
If it’s not a clear yes… (or at least 90%), then it’s a clear no.
At first, it’s not easy.
Working out, learning, whatever you start… it won’t be easy, and in fact you might think it’s doing the opposite to what it should be doing. But stick with it….
I was initially thinking about saving this one till end of the year, or end of the month. Or even end of the week…
You see, we wait…. wait for the right moment.
But when is the right moment?
We should just start.
Sooner you start, sooner the success will occur.
There’s alot of people talking about manifestation.
If you manifest, it will happen.
It doesn’t really work like that.
It’s based on your mindset. And the universe. The universal energy.
Read the below – it’ll explain it clearly, about your mindset, energy and frequency.
Recently, my friend Ajay passed away. He was 45.
There’s one thing about him, we all spoke about and agreed. He had a heart of gold. His sister said, when she last saw him and their mum together, the mum asked if the sister wanted a cup of tea… he said, you don’t ask, you give.
Look deeper than the surface… I’ve focused this on a ‘people’ element. But this is applicable for everything.
Everyday, we’re making decisions. Some big, some small. But what’s important is that we understand the gravity of those decisions.
When you make a particular decision today, you have to take into account the future. Is it the right decision you’re making based on future settings?
You can only do this by understanding. Whilst we don’t have a crystal ball, in to which we can see the future… the best math sometimes you can do is calculate the future cost/benefit.
Think big or go home!
I recall, I did a Friday Thought a few years based on thinking big. But then, the problem is… when you think big, you think you have to make big progress, giant leaps and huge gains.
Not necessarily… You definitely have to reach for the stars but to make that progress, think small steps.
What is happiness?
I’m often asked this from the people that I coach.
You know what, I don’t know what happiness looks for you, but for me it’s about being content.
Content with what I have.
Content with not really wanting more – but enjoying what I have.
What is happiness for you?
As many of you reading this may know, I coach. I coach individuals in a professional setting (such as corporate or in an organisation) and sports (primarily football).
The one thing I always mention is, gain the experience when you’re young. Go learn and do. Those with experience are the ones who’ll be better in life…
