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Mid-Jan Already?!

I can’t believe that it’s mid-January already!

I shared that I read a book called Atomic Habits (great book!) and I pulled together a ‘habit tracker’ – where I basically have a calendar view of my habits, and then track which ones I do on which days and then over the month, I can see which ones I’ve done the most and which ones I haven’t.

For example… I’ve got on there – gym, walking, drinking 1 litre of water, writing (not doing too well on!), reading, and a few more.

Now as I reflect on my habit tracker, I’m realising, I need to make sure I give all my habits attention. There’s some that I haven’t done at all. For example DJ.

So… when I was younger (alot younger) I used to DJ. Loved it. But haven’t done it for many many years…. then it all changed. Talking to my friend, I decided to buy some decks (mixer) and downloaded some dj software on the laptop. And started mixing/DJ’ing towards end of 2024. This is one of my habits. And I’ve not done it so far in January. Which got me thinking, could I break this habit down further to make progress….

And I’ve done just that. I listen to music all the time, in the car… in the plane, when travelling basically and then when if I’m in the hotel in the morning, etc… why not start to put songs/music together which I could mix? or why not listen to mixes that other DJ’s have done where I could take inspiration from?

So habits can be broken down to make progress…. and not beat myself up that I haven’t done anything on that particular habit.

For those who have not read the book, recommend you read it or find out what the book is about via their website.

But in essence… you build habits, to get better at something, Doing it little but often will see results.

Here’s what a habit tracker template looks like and I got mine from – https://daydesigner.com/products/habit-tracker (you can also just google and you’ll find so many different types of templates).

What do you want to get better at? What habits would you list?

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

A few weeks into January, how are those new year resolutions and commitments coming along?

Last year, towards the end, I read the book – Atomic Habits. Absolutely loved it! If you’ve not read it… you should!

With it… I’ve made a Habit Tracker. For example, I’ve listed things I want to do, like go to the gym, more walks, etc… And it made me think about today’s thought.

If you want to achieve something new or grow – you have to do something different….

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

Happy New Year!

Here’s my first Friday Thought of 2025! Been doing these for a fair few years and hope you enjoy them. I really appreciate the kind comments I receive when a Friday Thought really hits home with you…

Today, it’s about those ‘glimmers’. Not a glimmer of hope, but turning triggers on it’s head!

Look out for those special moments… and you’ll see more of them.

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

Today’s thought is from an accomplished football manager. And it’s something I learnt recently with my Under 13’s football team.

You see, we’d won like 10 games in a row.. and won them well. Unfortunately, we got to a stage that the team walked onto the pitch thinking we’ve got this and we can win easily. However, that’s not always the case.

We lost. And heavily. They destroyed us.

But you know what. We learnt so much from that one defeat. We learnt about our positioning, we learnt that we shouldn’t take particular risks when the opposition have certain qualities. Every team is different however, we shouldn’t become complacent.

I suppose, this is a life lesson. When you make a mistake, or when something doesn’t work out… you learn so much! And that is what makes you better.

Carlo says it very well…

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

We are always faced with so many choices.

Do you be… or do you go and do?

It’s a continuous loop of being, learning and understanding before you can go and do, share and be understood.

The Yin & Yang of Creativity…

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

I’ll share more in an up and coming blog post, but last week I was in Atlanta at a Leadership meeting. And at the meeting the boss put up a slide, and at the bottom of the slide he shared the books he recommends.

Personally – I loved that. Because, I always want to read new books which are recommended by intelligent people.

Which got me thinking… about smart people I know.

There’s a fair few of them. And then I began to notice a trend. A pattern, amongst them. They read books was number one. But they had much more in common…

To become smart… here’s what I found;

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

When was the last time you wanted to do something, but were scared?

We all are. To be honest, there are many time we just don’t do it due to a worry it may go wrong, it won’t be the correct way, etc…

We then either leave it, get someone else to do it or just keep thinking…

If you want to do something, should you? There could be factors that are preventing you, but once you know those factors….

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Bal’s Friday Thought…

So recently, I was on holiday and took the opportunity to read a book.

The book I read this summer was called, Never split the difference.

It was a great ready! Thoroughly recommend it.

The reason why I like it so much was because Chris gave some wonderful examples, he shared stories of successes but also failures! (you don’t have many people do that.. and then finally, it really did teach me something about empathy!)

So today’s thought is… make sure you’re equipped with the skills needed to negotiate.

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Bal’s Friday Thought

What do you enjoy doing?

Watching football?

Playing games?

Eating food?

Whatever you enjoy doing… do it! (And there can be monetisable opportunities). But do it with some passion also. I’ll explore in another blog post of mine about a book I recently finished called, Tuesday’s with Morrie. Great book.

But for today’s Friday Thought… it’s from Gary V, and he puts it quite simply…

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